A good 5 minutes passes. It’s a good job I am in this car on my own.
My face is puffy and sore and my attempt at making myself look like a normal human being is failing. I’ve heard off my best friend this Morning and my parents, even my boss has checked in, begrudgingly though – she just wants to make sure I’m not wasting her money, no compassion.
I un do my seatbelt and take deep breath, wipe my eyes and get my shit together.
“Come on Laura you can do this” I say out loud as if pretending to psych myself up is going to make anything better.
I walk into an office building and am greeted by my pre-briefed baby sister. Prior to my arrival my boss has been on the phone with them discussing the options should I need to leave because my husband is a disgusting piece of work how behaves like a man child and thinks what he has done is acceptable behaviour.
They all know. I feel uncomfortable but it’s not too long before the young woman supporting my training makes me realise that there are some incredible human beings in the world. She links her arm in mine and tells me today will be hard, “you will be strong though” she whispers to me, “I can feel it”.
With that the day passes and I find I have barely thought about it, again I am not heartless but those of you who know me know that when I am in a bad place I throw myself into work! It’s time to leave and already I am dreading being on my own, my trainers suggest cocktails, my tummy still gurgling suggests not, maybe with some food I could give it ago? At this point anything that is going to take me away from real life would be incredible.
McDonalds is the food of choice. I think there is a pretty obvious pattern in my current eating habits here, I am extremely overweight and I hate everything about myself but even more so now because I haven’t been enough for my husband.
I stand in the queue, its rush hour. To the left of me a guy with his kids, their hair slick back and wet and their school uniform on but scruffy like they have thrown it on so quickly in the anticipation of a happy meal with a collectible toy. To the right of me a pair of two young and in love teenagers, I am so bitter right now an I can feel the tears welling.
“Order number 64”.
I sit in a booth at the back of the fast food restaurant so I can plug my headphones in and watch Netflix, there is no one around at first but I’m soon joined in my surroundings by youths and families, come on girl keep it together. I take a bite from my burger, it’s contents over flowing and the grease dripping down my hands. I check my phone.
Nothing.
Absolutely nothing.
How can someone you thought loved you say nothing to you all day. Is he speaking to that woman? does he even care? My eyes start streaming and I cannot keep it together, I can’t see for tears, my nose is running so much I’m saturating my napkin with more that just burger grease. A young guy walks past quickly with his tray and almost has to do a double take.
“Come on love, there’s no use crying over a Big Mac”.